AI companion apps are sparking a surge in users forming romantic bonds with chatbots. Nearly 1 in 5 Americans have interacted with AI meant to simulate a romantic partner, according to a recent survey.
The hype is real – but so is pushback. Futurist Jaron Lanier warned in The New Yorker about the risks of "human degradation" when people fall in love with AI. Podcaster Joe Rogan called it “dystopian," saying after hearing about AI marriages:
“I’m like, oh, we’re done.
We’re cooked.”
Still, experts say we’re not doomed. Relationships with AI may be mostly fine — even healthy.
The risks are clear: AI companions come with terrible privacy policies, can encourage destructive behaviors, and in one tragic case may have played a role in a teenager’s suicide. Companies can abruptly change terms or shut down, leaving users suddenly cut off from their AI partners.
Critics worry chatbots will ruin human relationships by offering easy affection and constant affirmation, making real human connection less appealing or achievable.
However, a recent study found loneliness wasn’t the main reason people turn to AI partners. Instead, many seek safe spaces to explore romantic fantasies.
Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg has pitched AI companions as a solution to loneliness. Early research hints chatbot bonds coexist with human relationships rather than replacing them.
Safety and regulation are urgent. Experts urge governments to hold AI app makers accountable for harmful chatbot behavior and enforce privacy protections. Age restrictions or behavior controls for younger users are also recommended.
Public education must catch up to prepare users, especially kids, to handle AI companions responsibly and without stigma.
AI lovers aren’t taking over human relationships yet. People still chase messy, real-world romance. But chatbot relationships are here — and they’re not going anywhere anytime soon.
Watch ‘60 Minutes Australia’ on AI companion relationships below:
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